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You can use it by yourself, or with a partner.

Double ended dildos may look a teeny bit intimidating on first glance, but we promise they're really not. If you're into penetration and like using dildos, you can try using one with your partner, or by yourself.

These sex toys come in so many different lengths, shapes, textures, and materials. So, if you're put off by the 'realistic' style of many double dildos that come complete with veins and balls, never fear - there are other options.

"A double-ended dildo (also known as a double dong) is a long shaft of smooth, sturdy rubber with a moulded head at either end for penetration," says Anna Lee, sex toy expert at Lovehoney. "There are lots of excellent beginner’s toys available, and they go up in size to a mighty 22 inches."

Anna explains an easy one to start with, is a basic silicone double dildo that's flexible and can be bent to fit you most comfortably.

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Here's her guide on everything you need to know about using a double dildo.

It’s important to moisten each end of your dildo with a water-based lube to make penetration as comfortable (and enjoyable) as possible. Beware: with silicone sex toys, never use silicone lube. The two will react badly and may make your toy deteriorate.

Go for an organic, good quality lube that doesn't contain any harmful allergens.

How you use your double-ended dildo depends on whether you are on a solo quest, or if you want to share the double fun.

If you’re flying solo, you'll want a flexible double-ended dildo so it's easier to get to grips with. They may feel wobbly and unwieldy at first, but by bending and twisting it you'll find that it becomes much firmer - and you can use both ends vaginally and anally. If it's your first time exploring with anal toys, choosing one that has one slimmer end for easier penetration.

There are two main ways to use your double dildo, but there are many variations that you can try, too.

1) Lie on your back, with a cushion or two under your hips and spread your legs comfortably. Insert one end of the double dildo slowly, then bend the other end of it up towards you to use as a handle and to guide the thrust of it.

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2) Bend the dildo into a 'U' shape and rest it against a surface with each end facing upwards. Squatting over it, gently guide one head into the anus and the other into the vagina. You will then be able to bounce on the dildo and achieve full, fulfilling double penetration. If you're playing together, then it's best to go for double dildo which is a bit firmer, like Doc Johnson's double headed dildo.

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You might like to try having both of you kneeling on all fours and backing onto each end of the double dildo, one at a time. This allows you to both take the dildo at your own pace.

Sit facing each other, then bring yourself onto your hands and feet in a semi 'crab' position. Slide the double dildo between you, and insert it slowly.

By intertwining your legs, you can both enjoy the full length of the dildo as you thrust forwards and back, while still maintaining eye contact.

If you find it hard or impossible to orgasm through penetration alone, try using a bullet, clit or wand vibrator while you use the dildo internally.

Use the sex toy to target vibrations to your (or your partner's) clitoris.