The 7 Best Dame Vibrators And Pleasure Products, Per Reviews

2022-10-09 13:57:53 By : Mr. Barton Zhang

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Spoiler alert: It's all good vibes.

You likely don't need to be told why sex toys are so popular, but chances are that if you're a big fan of using them, you also know all about Dame Products. But ICYMI, sexologist Alexandra Fine and MIT engineer Janet Lieberman co-founded Dame to make doctor-approved, body-safe sex toys, vibrators, lubes, and more. And while they do all of those things very well, their larger mission is to close the "pleasure gap"—the fact that women report experiencing less pleasure than men during sex.

Designed to be used solo or with your partner(s), Fine tells Women's Health that pleasure starts with getting in touch with your own body to understand how you like to be stimulated. That's why Dame is a great brand for sex toy or masturbation beginners. In fact, all their toys actually come with easy-to-follow guides and tips on how to use them.

Peep a few of the best tried-and-tested Dame products, below:

Each of Dame's toys are designed to invite exploration, from their hands-free, clitoral-stimulating Eva to their suction Aer toy, arousal serum, and even sex pillow. Some people say they won't even have sex without one of the brand's toys on-hand.

See below for the best reviewer and Women's Health editor-loved Dame Products sex toys, vibrators, and more.

The most crowdfunded sex toy in history, the hands-free Eva vibrator was the first product Dame came out with, and it remains the brand's bestseller today. Though it's designed to nestle in to your vulva for clitoral stimulation during sex, you could easily wear it for some solo play (or, while having phone sex).

One WH editor even says she refuses to have sex with her partner without it. It's the reason they started having shared orgasms, bringing them even closer together as a couple.

Rave Review: "After a bit of experimenting with the placement, Eva has helped to produce a better experience with my partner than before. Eva is cute, discreet, and powerful. I love that it is waterproof and the battery life lasts forever!"

A personal favorite, the Aer suction toy is great for anyone who wants to mimic the sensation of receiving oral stimulation. With five air-pulsating patterns and levels of intensity, it can be used on the clit, of course, but you'll want to play with it on all of your erogenous zones because the ultra soft medical-grade silicone suction feels great nearly anywhere.

Bonus: It's ultra quiet, making it great for travel or if you have roommates.

Rave Review: "The Aer is simply amazing and I get a big O every single time! Fun for nipples and clit play. Everyone should have this fun toy in their collection!"

One of the most versatile toys out there, the aptly-named palm-sized Pom is a great place to start if you're a beginner because it's super flexible, features different pulse patterns, and even has an ergonomic design.

Fine's personal favorite toy, she advises that you either use it to stimulate any of your most sensitive spots by hand, hump the toy between your legs, or slide it in your panties.

Rave Review: "The vibrator itself has the most luxurious-feeling silicone. It's so soft and feels nice to the touch. It has a bit of flex to it and it is easy to hold and operate. Wand-shaped toys can make my hand cramp up so it’s nice to have this more palm-shaped toy that is easy to hold. There are a good amount of settings for such a small toy and the vibration power is good but not super intense if that is what you need."

Yes, technically you could play with any pillow, but this one's specifically design to heighten sexual pleasure. Dame's machine-washable sex pillow comes with tons of suggestions on ways to use it for solo or partner play, but you'll love the little features your regular sleeping pillow (likely) doesn't have.

Peep the grabbable handles, soft cotton cover, and water-resistant liner that'll all look super discreet on your bed or couch when not being used.

Rave Review: "A comfortable entry angle is easier to consistently achieve when using Pillo. Normal pillows being ad-hoc stuffed underneath someone don't even compare—they end up sliding with movement and have to be repositioned. You guys rock! Never change and keep up the awesome work. No one else seems to think through a product like you guys do."

All of Dame's vibrators are made out of medical-grade silicone, and that's an especially important fact when you plan on using a toy internally. That's just one of the reasons Women's Health editorial assistant Sabrina Talbert says the waterproof Arc has been one of her favorite vibrators to use for years.

"It works great as a vibrator if you don’t want penetration, but if you do, the shape of the toy does a solid job at targeting the G-spot," she says. "The vibrations can get pretty intense but because it has five different kinds of vibration patterns, you can tailor the experience to what you want it to be."

Rave Review: "I've always struggled to feel internal pleasure and tend to rush my solo orgasms by just shoving a vibe on my clit and calling it a day. This toy has been helping me to form a more mindful connection with my body and my pleasure to actually explore what feels good both internally and externally. This toy taught me to have G-Spotasms."

Don't judge this tiny book by its cover—the Fin finger vibrator can pack a serious punch with its versatility. "The Fin is a great choose-your-own-adventure toy, since it can easily be integrated with whatever you’re already doing with your hands," says Fine. Another solid choice if you're a beginner or just want to slowly start incorporating vibrators in your partner play, it's a great way to crank up the intensity on whatever you're already doing.

Rave Review: "The Fin is my first vibrator and I am completely pleased. I actually love that the first setting is lower than maybe is average. The second-highest setting has only been needed a couple of times, and I haven't even needed to go to the third setting. My partner has been very enthusiastic about it as well, and we make it a regular part of our sessions! I have wrist issues, so this has saved me from carpal tunnel, plus guarantees a great orgasm literally every time."

Dame's hand and vibe cleaner is obviously not a vibrator, but it definitely deserves an honorable mention. The discreet spray is super easy to use pre and post-vibrator use, and just a generally great item to have on-hand (literally) if you feel like cleaning up a bit before or after play time. The sensitive skin-friendly spray is easier to use and far more sustainable than wipes, too.

Rave Review: "Smells great and makes for easy clean-up. It actually gets smells out, too, unlike hand soap. It's not sticky, oily, or gooey at all. The perfect consistency."